This quote is a favorite as it is something that I struggled with quite a bit when I was younger. I was convinced that if I asked again, complained louder, insisted, persisted etc. the outcome would be different and I would get the result I was looking for. In truth, I spent a lot of time arguing mute points-of course I did not realize it at the time.
I have learned that "it is what it is" to be the truest statement about ones circumstances. If you are able to accept "what is-is" then you will be much happier as a result. There will be less stress, anxiety and in general you will find you are actually able to accomplish a lot more since your are dealing with the reality of your particular situation. It is somewhat empowering to know that your path has already been determined (for that particular moment in time) and your actions moving forward are what determines the future outcome. The moment you are already in, had already been decided..make sense
In either case, without getting "too Zen" I wanted to share this FREE DESKTOP WALLPAPER and hope the message will offer some encouragement. Rather than have several sized wallpapers, this series is available in the four most common aspect ratios for computers.
If you are not sure of the correct aspect ratio for your computer simply find out your screen resolution. For Windows this can be found on the Control Panel under Display. For Mac click the Apple icon at the top left of your screen.
To download, click on the appropriate image below and right click then set as desktop wallpaper. If you have selected the correct aspect ratio your image should load without needing to be stretched and should not be blurry. Enjoy!